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Monday, April 12, 2010

An Odd Anger Management Course

Although anger has often been classified as a biologically grounded, universal emotion, it is clear that anger is interpreted, managed, and regulated differently in different social contexts.
What is known is that in Arab circle and culture, demeaning expressions targeted toward individuals of high status constitute a challenge to their manhood. Hence, the mean and hostile aggression directed toward Antoun Sehnaoui, CEO of one of the leading banks in town, wasn't going to pass without retaliation. Indeed, the wild outburst of violence through fisted and belittling gestures and wordings was clearly a confrontational call that drove fury to take stage on the Maison Blanche opened-ring.  As a matter of fact, a clear affront was offered to Sehanoui and his bodyguards as soon as the young reputed and successful entrepreneur walked into the White House on that Saturday night (Feb. 25, 2010).
What seems to have actually happened is that Mazen & Co. did all they can to fuel Antoun and his bodyguards to encourage them to be aggressive. Such a behavior is known as "instrumental aggression" involving an intention to hurt another as a means to some goal.
And it's nothing but the availability of guns that made the bullying face off and war of words take a different route; however, the fight was unavoidable, point blank. Did any of the provocative and angry men expect Antoun Sehnaoui to flee the night club with his men like a bunch of sissies, rather than stand their ground in fights, summoning up  courage toward the aggressiveness that emerged upon their arrival to Maison Blanche? Or were Antoun's opponents giving him an angry management course?
Have the men not been armed,  would have violence been lowered? Not certain! It could have been worse! How many times have we heard about late night fights where people stabbed have ended on a hospital bed with serious wounds? How many times, have we heard about alcohol bottles used as lethal weapons with fight ending even more lethally than what happened at Maison Blanche?
What we should condemn here is not how Antoun Sehnaoui's bodyguards dealt with their aggressive impulses; but how the opposite clan provided stimulus to unhealthy emotions defying men who are paid to protect someone from any potential threat and have an inborn tendency to respond to certain provocative stimuli by striking out against the perpetrator. Think about it?


A metaphoric visual to help picturing the situation as in a target and darts (the game) thrown unexpectedly at someone who just planned that night to party and enjoy his time. 
Result: one blast of a night!!

Posted by The Free Spirit @ News 961

In terms of right & wrong, I was both

Blasting my way out of a bar, come midnight, the energy, inside me dancing.
Took the wheel and decided, at the spur of the moment, to go for a drive.
With music commanding the flow of things, the evening, could not have been better.

The streetlights flickering, as I sped through, without a care in this world.
I was alone, and enjoying every minute of it.
Many streets later, I found myself heading home.
Pulled to a halt at an intersection, waiting for the lights to flash green.
While I waited, I was thinking to myself, how warm the evening’s proceedings were, when the traffic light flashed a bright green.
I stepped on the gas pedal, only to come to an immediate halt, smack in the middle of the lane, with the oncoming herd of metal monsters, from my right, screeching to a halt, inches away from where I had stopped. 
PAUSE
Here’s what happened...
I, apparently in no condition to drive, had not only foolishly done so, but had been looking at the wrong traffic light, having mistaken it for mine!
In terms of right & wrong, I was both.

Again….
Perspective!!
 
Don’t be too quick to judge, as my reasoning, under such conditions, was head on, even funny seeing how no one got hurt.
However, things don’t always happen that way...


Posted by Maverick from the Demos Unit