Make lemonade
As it goes, the White House is an incident that was shined, polished, & perfected for a television show, O TV in that case: Extreme Makeover Tayyar Home Edition. So funny, so Absurd!
As a society, we're at a point where adversity, war, fights--mashkal-- call it whatever, and chaos are deemed somehow 'Normal'. However, because of these facts, our definition of 'Normal' has become changed and distorted beyond comprehension...
When we look at the news, on 25th February 2010, we hear of a young successful entrepreneur, Antoun Sehnaoui, shooting at people left right & centre.
He was at Beirut's Maison Blanche night club, and chose to do so for no reason says the rumours.
On the other side, It is still unclear what the reasons are for launching such a massive rumour-based orchestrated campaign; but it is thought that the young man was going out to party and was attacked verbally, insulted with rude gestures and disparaged beyond anyone's imagination with all the meanness low people may be good at. Then, the thunderbolt....
Harming this man was an obvious, easy, cheap and Oh so Golden opportunity for many here in Lebanon to catch.
Would be good to try to dissect the false from the truth...Why the news was hugely distorted?
A thought by The Free Spirit
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Showing posts with label Maison Blanche shooting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Maison Blanche shooting. Show all posts
Monday, May 3, 2010
Thursday, April 29, 2010
A Lebanese Saturday Night Fever
The POP, CURSE, SHOOT scene rewinded
Recap: Two angry men showing up one night at the Lebanese White House (aka Maison Blanche), one of the hip night club in town, located in Sodeco, Ashrafieh.
A Saturday night 'à la Libanaise' fever that started as usual, with all the bling-bling set on fire mode for a show off long night-party played on a strident volume, and a base finely tuned.
However, that night, ego entered the arena like a flashlight, as fast as guns charged in, and rumours followed, spreading out of all proportion, on an exceptionaly unrealistic scale...
I'm sure you all agree; encounters as such adversity involving an exchange of insults--have high probability to end up with an injury than not.
Nonetheless, i'm trying to understand how could two educated young men end up in such a furious face-off, as one could hardly believe that a Mazen el Zein has been willingly targeted with a "shoot to kill 007 plan" from an Antoun Sehnaoui, as he declared to the media.
It was a screw up on all sides, easily admissible. Everything went wrong that night after the war of words kicked in. In a blink of an eye, an incomprehensible hateful downward spiral, which like an inverted tornado, took amazingly hold of Lebanon.
Now let's think of it this way: whoever is insulted in front of others will see himself as diminished in his masculine mind & body, reputation and status. Perhaps partly as a result, the insult produces more aggressive or domineering behavior depending on each individual. In fact, the "public" insult produces heightened aggression over and above a "private" insult. We do believe this was the case in the White House shooting, where the public versus private nature of the flow of insult played an important and determinant element here. It is normal to see that publicly insulted individuals would show a more extreme pattern of responses than privately insulted people, as traditional "macho" behaviors emerge, specially in Arab countries.
Indeed, in private, an assaulted man would make an approach that is entirely different than that what we heard happened at Maison Blanche.
What am trying to ponder here, is that a lonely cowboy is not as prone to ambush; he doesn't charge in randomly nor purposely, if not given the right stimulus. Antoun became upset and prepared for aggression on the physiological level; and only because he was chaperoned by big dudes with plenty of beef on their shoulders that hostility increased and the high degree of aggressiveness made the guys easily primed to react with no wise thinking.
An article by The Free Spirit
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11:27 AM
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
The "Culture Of Honor" At Play Between Antoun Sehnaoui and Mazen el-Zein
The dynamics and specific mechanisms inherent to the culture of honor is an important topic to study in light of the Maison Blanche night club shooting that took place February 25th between a Mazen el-Zein and Antoun Sehnaoui, CEO of SGBL. What happened on that hot Saturday at the White House Club in Beirut helps us understand something about the etiology of 'manhood' in Arab societies and in similar cultures of honor.
In fact, Antoun Sehnaoui's bodyguards' act falls within what anthropologists have righteously identified and dubbed a "culture of honor", in which even small disputes become contests for reputation and social status."
Honor in a society like Lebanon means a pride of manhood in masculine courage, physical strength, and warrior virtue. It was somehow of no surprise to see the bodyguards of Antoun Sehnaoui, defend the young CEO's honor without a moment's hesitation-lashing out against their challengers.
Indeed, defense of honor can and must be understood within a larger social context of reputations, relative social status, and enduring relationships.
The shooting provided strong additional evidence that defamatory insults are crucially important in such cultures. A male who is insulted but does not retaliate risks having his masculine reputation diminished. When a challenging or highly status-relevant situation is encountered, the person may lash out with violent or aggressive behavior to reassert himself.
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4:59 PM
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